These are excerpt from my life experiences.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Another atm dabit card lost HDFC

Counting on the loss in terms of money I found that my another debit card is with me but some body has emptied my saving account and loss is of Rs 13500/It is material loss but the fact remains that some body has given great shock as we have done so much for the person whom we doubt and he is missing and he is not able to face us.I am thinking again and again whether we should lodge a F I R to the police .But if the person is the same we are thinking then he along with his family will be ruined .But if we dont report to police we will remain in doubtas to who has done.But this has shaken our faith .We hope that report should be otherwise.Let us see what happens and what is written in our fate.?

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Lost the atm and lic policy a great shock

As I was pondering that how much I have lost in life as per our fault and also due to fault of others and that of technology the result is tension.From the beginning if I have to start that what I have lost it will be a great list and it is better to forget the past and try to be on safe gaurd at present and future.
Before partition in 1947 .....I lost our house in Kohat where I used to enjoy my child hood then I moved to Tobatek Singh town at Nanas place when partition took place and were kept hostage along with my mother and 4 sisters .Then moved to India in refugee camp in Patiala.At that time we thinking that we had lost our father and two elder brothers and after some time we got the news tha they were safe and we met at Agra after hectic efforts for the Reunion.In 1948 we lost our eldest sister who suffered a malarial fever .In these years I lost all the education and some of URDU langauge in pre partition time.Started again in some Hindi school at Agra from !948 and shifted To Delhi in !948-1949 Our father lost some money when his pocket was picked at Delhi Station .Used to learn and make cartons which became our family business.Lost so many happy ocassions and was much grieved when I lost my sister ,mother ,elder brother ,and father to whom I pay my heart felt Shrandajali.Some of the material loss is also pinching as recently I lost the Lic policy of Shashi which I remember that orignal bond was not returned by the LIC branch Meerut and I have to run for submitting the I bond on 16 th march 2010 I was shocked that Rs 25000/ have been withdrawn from my Debit Card of Standard chartered Bank Saket.New DELHI.I have given the complaint to the bank but they say that it will take 12 days to find out who has taken the money .The fact is this I have not used my ATM and The ATM is with me still and I keep it in my lock and key.I have not changed the pin also as yet.The result is tension and I am waiting and watching.I am also trying to forget one house which I have lost and the case is pending in High court .The strange thing in this case is that the person who made my signatures and sold it to some one are enjoying and even won the case in lower court after 13 years and now it is in appeal in High court since 3 years.So Now I am of the view that life is great struggle and it is not the bed of roses.One should depend on THE ALIGHTY and leave all our troubles to Him and HE is the only saviour and we we shall get peace .

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Partitions Woes

During partition of India we have seen so much crulities and those cruelities are difficult to erase from our minds.As I had talked to so many it was revealed that it was like a Har Ghar Ki Kahani.the brulities of those days loom large at the faces of the then public who migrated to India.Some have lost their beloved kith and kins .Some of those families who left some of their relatives in Pakistan remained in horrible condions and as the time passed on some were expired and there was no one to tell their slow deaths on account shocks of historical blunders of those days.Sanjha chula of Hindhus and Mulims became the thing of past and so many innocent people died.

Our 41 st wedding anniversary on 7/3/2010

In continuation of our wedding anniversary we cut the cake and distributed the cake among the guests and some snaps were taken .I enjoyed the function and the most youngest guest was Soni (our daughters son who is 7 years old)and I liked his company the most.We were wondering how happily the 41 years of married life have past and the God was very much kind to us who has showered so many blessings to us and to our children and grand children.We are thankful to all relatives we have sent good wishes to us on this day.So this happy day has passed with happy note and we went to sleep with satisfied frame of mind.Once again we thank to God who is so kind to us and hope that HE will shower HIS blessings in future also.We are specially thankful to Anu,Gaurav ,Soni ,Ashi,montoo,Kitty,Aanyia, and Ahana,who are part of our life as well as to all who remembered us on this memorable day.So thanks to all

Saturday, March 6, 2010

OUR 41 TH WEDDING Anniversary (7 th March,2010)

Oh as usual I thought of our 41th wedding anniversarya day earlier that is at 11.55 pm and exactly at 12.00 mid night my cell phone started ringing and we got the sublime pleasure when our son and daughter in law and the kids wished us happy wedding anniversary.We reciprocated them with same wormth and zeal.We talked about their welfare at length We shall again write some our feelings and happiness after concluding the events on 7 th March 2010.(SUNDAY)

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Strange pain on the right hand of Shashi (my wife)

Today when I was away just to offer our sharandjali on the 24 th death anniversary of our respected mother (Bhabhi as we usually call during our childhood )and on my return I found Shashi in tears and she was crying out of immence pain on the right hand near elbow.I immediately gave the warm bottle to her for hot massage and gave some pain killer medicine.This instance is being second time.she got relief .In the evennig again she felt shooting pain on the same spot.I again applied some pain relief ointment named VOLINI(Ranbaxy).Now I am in a fix what to do and what is the permanent cure ? No body knows even the doctors say that as this a long case of some sort of bone TB and callus formation is stopped and the fractured joint has been screwd by the help of plate.Doctors say that if we operate then there is less space near elbow the joint may become immobile and the movements will become difficult.The x ray shows that some of the screws have become loose.I am also suffering from pain because some bowl has erupted near neck and I am taking medicine and it will be cured very soon.

Remembering our respected mother on 24 th death anniversary

Remembrances of my mother on the death anniversary ( 24 th Death anniversary)
On 7th february every year I along with my wife have made up routine to wke up in the morning and just take bath and sometimes she prepares prasad with her own hands and asks me to go to the temple to offer the same to THE GOD ALMIGHTY and we are disdributing some fruits and Halwa and puries to the poor people near temple.But as the time passes away and the life in Delhi is very fast we vare justt going to temple and offer prasad of fruits sweets milk and boondi Ladoo and burfi etc and some donation to the temple.On this we feel just our mother is just sitting next to us and guiding us from heaven.We have seen that that our mother was such a pious soul that she predicted her death and before death she took out all the jewllery and handed it over to our father that he should tkae care of the ornaments because tomorrow there would be great rush and that he might misplace the same.Such was our mother and we pay a tearful rememberences and pray to GOD that HE should give peace to the departed soul under HIS devine feet.This is our Sharandjali