Partitions Woes

During partition of India we have seen so much crulities and those cruelities are difficult to erase from our minds.As I had talked to so many it was revealed that it was like a Har Ghar Ki Kahani.the brulities of those days loom large at the faces of the then public who migrated to India.Some have lost their beloved kith and kins .Some of those families who left some of their relatives in Pakistan remained in horrible condions and as the time passed on some were expired and there was no one to tell their slow deaths on account shocks of historical blunders of those days.Sanjha chula of Hindhus and Mulims became the thing of past and so many innocent people died.

Our 41 st wedding anniversary on 7/3/2010

In continuation of our wedding anniversary we cut the cake and distributed the cake among the guests and some snaps were taken .I enjoyed the function and the most youngest guest was Soni (our daughters son who is 7 years old)and I liked his company the most.We were wondering how happily the 41 years of married life have past and the God was very much kind to us who has showered so many blessings to us and to our children and grand children.We are thankful to all relatives we have sent good wishes to us on this day.So this happy day has passed with happy note and we went to sleep with satisfied frame of mind.Once again we thank to God who is so kind to us and hope that HE will shower HIS blessings in future also.We are specially thankful to Anu,Gaurav ,Soni ,Ashi,montoo,Kitty,Aanyia, and Ahana,who are part of our life as well as to all who remembered us on this memorable day.So thanks to all

OUR 41 TH WEDDING Anniversary (7 th March,2010)

Oh as usual I thought of our 41th wedding anniversarya day earlier that is at 11.55 pm and exactly at 12.00 mid night my cell phone started ringing and we got the sublime pleasure when our son and daughter in law and the kids wished us happy wedding anniversary.We reciprocated them with same wormth and zeal.We talked about their welfare at length We shall again write some our feelings and happiness after concluding the events on 7 th March 2010.(SUNDAY)

Strange pain on the right hand of Shashi (my wife)

Today when I was away just to offer our sharandjali on the 24 th death anniversary of our respected mother (Bhabhi as we usually call during our childhood )and on my return I found Shashi in tears and she was crying out of immence pain on the right hand near elbow.I immediately gave the warm bottle to her for hot massage and gave some pain killer medicine.This instance is being second time.she got relief .In the evennig again she felt shooting pain on the same spot.I again applied some pain relief ointment named VOLINI(Ranbaxy).Now I am in a fix what to do and what is the permanent cure ? No body knows even the doctors say that as this a long case of some sort of bone TB and callus formation is stopped and the fractured joint has been screwd by the help of plate.Doctors say that if we operate then there is less space near elbow the joint may become immobile and the movements will become difficult.The x ray shows that some of the screws have become loose.I am also suffering from pain because some bowl has erupted near neck and I am taking medicine and it will be cured very soon.

Remembering our respected mother on 24 th death anniversary

Remembrances of my mother on the death anniversary ( 24 th Death anniversary)
On 7th february every year I along with my wife have made up routine to wke up in the morning and just take bath and sometimes she prepares prasad with her own hands and asks me to go to the temple to offer the same to THE GOD ALMIGHTY and we are disdributing some fruits and Halwa and puries to the poor people near temple.But as the time passes away and the life in Delhi is very fast we vare justt going to temple and offer prasad of fruits sweets milk and boondi Ladoo and burfi etc and some donation to the temple.On this we feel just our mother is just sitting next to us and guiding us from heaven.We have seen that that our mother was such a pious soul that she predicted her death and before death she took out all the jewllery and handed it over to our father that he should tkae care of the ornaments because tomorrow there would be great rush and that he might misplace the same.Such was our mother and we pay a tearful rememberences and pray to GOD that HE should give peace to the departed soul under HIS devine feet.This is our Sharandjali

Our Bauji "s 15 th death anniversary on 22 Jan 2010

As I was sitting and remembering my beloved Father (Bauji ) who had left us to face this world and from that date he is with us in our hearts and his pious soul is always with us.We definitely know that he is resting under the Devine Feet Of The Almighty God and his blessings are with us.We deeply remember him our beloved Bauji every moment with our hearts and give a tearful Shrandjali on his 15 th death anniversary.We all pray to God that his soul may rest in peace

Condolences on the sad demise of Mr Sayal (Father of Mr Rajesh sayal ) our painful duty

As we woke up then the telephone came that our nearest relative expired at 8am on 8/11/09. and we hurriedly started and reached Shakti vihar so that we may attend the sanskar .The traffic from Saket to Pritampura was neck braking .Any way we thank our driver of car who had taken us to reach our destination.Resently we heard that Mr Sayal a senior citizen who tumbled down due to uneven road near his house and was operated upon for joint near his waist .As a bad luck would have it on the same day he was to attend the marriage of his grand son and he was supposed to attend the same in banquet hall near Rohini.His all the three sons were there when this accident happened.He was admitted in RML hospital and immediately operated upon .After two days he was discharged with ok report.But after 3 days he felt some breathing trouble and was again admitted in the same hospital in the morning and expired at 8 am .Irony of fate was that his two sons left at this moment one to Jaipur and the other to Dabai.Messages were sent to Jaipur and Dabai .One son from Jaipur reached in time and the other could not catch the back flight and it was now evening and the sanskar had to be performed before the sunset .So at 6 pm the funeral was performed by the youngest son .Mr Sayal was a social worker and known for his work for society in the locality and as such there were so many persons to pay their homage to this noble soul.I along with wife were returning from Punjabi Bagh to Saket but we had to wait for another hour but could not catch any three wheeler .All the scooters refused to come to south Delhi .So there was no alternative but to travel by DTC bus .At last one private bus stopped and I had to lift and support my wife to board the bus as there was no handle to catch on left side and unfortunitely her right hand was weak having an implated a shoulder metallic plate due to old surgical operation.Any way we were in the bus seated comfortably upto AIIMS medical stop.On the way this bus having a race with another bus so that to catch passengers risking the lives of passengers and bus driver himself.The ticket was Rs 15/ each and we had paid Rs 30/as the coductor was not having change we gave Rs 100/ note and hoping that he would return the balance automatically .I was astonished to note that he did't return the balance .At this time my wife said ,Bhaiya Mere sattar repya to Lotaa Do."The conductor made a very funny face and gave back the balance.Due to slow driving the journey From Punjabi Bagh to mrdcal took one and half hour.
Now from AIIMS Bus stop we crossed the road through Sub way to reach AIIMS .After crossing the subway we could note find any 3 wheeler and walked about 1 Km to reach another bus stop near the entry gate of AIIMS around flyover.We tried to stop any three wheeler for Saket but no Auto driver was willing to go to saket now the distance was too short and it was not a profit earning proposition for Auto drivers.There was no choice but to board the bus again .After waiting for sometime a Bus 501 route came and we were safely in the bus.After struggling on the road with empty stomach I was feeling headache and we were dropped at Khoka market stop.We crossed the road and were passing through the short cut .I was thinking why at all the senior citizens cross the road or rather step out of house to get hurt?As I was analysing this in my mind I stepped my foot on a track path but by mistake put my foot on the shadow of the step and just fell down with all the bag and my wife came running and two of my friends lifted me on my feet .Luckily I was saved from any injury .I was just bruised at my ankle.My inner voice was anticipating that lest any thing wrong may happen to me .All the way I was caring for this aspect of safety for me as well that
for my wife but on reaching so near to our house some thing happened.At this moment I remembered my Bauji who used to utter a Urdu poetry "" SAMAAN SO BARAS KA PAL KEE KHABBAR NAHI "" In our culture if we had attended the funeral and touched the dead body we have to take bath to make oueselves "' shudh "' and the clothes are changed .So after all the hurdles we were satisfied that we had done our duty as human being.We pray to GOD THE ALMIGHTY that the departed noble soul may rest in peace under HIS Devine FEET.